Don’t let your karma in relationships destroy you. Deal with it in a way, where the attention is on the self, not on the other person. Take care of yourself when you face the heat in your relationships or in a life situation. Don’t absorb this heat. Because if you do, you’ll never be able to break free.

What’s most important to resolve karma is one’s own peace and positivity. The more you lose these two, the more complicated karmic debts become for you. So, in any karmic situation, your attention should be towards the self. How are you responding, feeling, thinking, understanding! What really are you creating within! What really are you absorbing!

If the external situation is messing up your inner state, then be sure, it’s all becoming more and more intense and complicated. So, do whatever it takes to remain peaceful and positive when dealing with a challenging situation outside. And this is only possible when you remain attentive to the self, when you learn to switch your thoughts and feelings to a more neutral or positive state when karma confronts you. It isn’t difficult. All it takes is 3 important realisations – “I am important, not my situation.” “I am life, not my situation.” “I am responsible for where this goes.”

Remember, when you face a karmic situation, the spotlight is on you. The universe watches you closely at this time. And if you are able to maintain inner stability, if you can stop yourself from getting emotionally worked up, if you can preserve your peace and positivity for your own sake, karma will release you. So, understand karma as not a punishment but as an opportunity for growth and more self-love.